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Unlock the immense power of asking questions

May 25, 2021/in Multipliers, News

Every executive’s skillset should include the art of questioning. To truly unlock value in organisations, questioning skills need to be honed to build trust, foster innovation and problem-solving, as well as improve performance.

Recent behavioural science research sheds light on how leaders can frame questions, decide what is appropriate to share, and choose the tone of their delivery.  

Ask = receive

Ask enough (and the right) questions and you’ll gain valuable insight into an organisation.

What are your goals?

Are your questions cooperative or competitive? This will influence what you ask and how you answer.

Follow-up questions

Byreturning to a subject previously covered, you indicate you’re a good listener and want to engage further. This builds trust and a stronger business relationship. 

Open-ended questions can be productive

Know when to push for a definitive answer or probe a little more sensitively. Sometimes the latter can produce more honest responses, depending on the situation.

Sequence is key

Learn to gauge whether to begin with the tougher questions or to escalate from less aggressive questioning to more intrusive queries.

Tone

A judgment-free tone can be effective for unlocking more honest answers.

Group dynamics

One-on-one and group conversations: More reserved or more forthcoming answers may depend on who else is listening and contributing.  

Degree of transparency (to share or not to share)

While risks of divulging sensitive information must be considered, transparency is generally more beneficial to building healthy working relationships than a more guarded approach to responding to questions.

Be willing to ask enough questions, and provide thoughtful answers when questioned in turn. Build a relationship where engagement is encouraged, and the results are sure to be positive and constructive. Learn more about the power of questions on hbr.org.

Gain the tools for constructive communication and transformation

BRG’s Multipliers program is tailored for executives who seek to unlock the genius in others by tapping into their intelligence and asking the right questions.  

The counterintuitive way to be more persuasive | Niro Sivanathan

April 13, 2021/in News, Think On Your Feet

If you ever questioned the impact of our ability to communicate watch this clip. The dilution effect has important implications on our ability to be heard and to influence when we speak up. In the world of communication, quality trumps quantity every time.

For internationally acclaimed communication training that will teach you how to communicate your ideas clearly, concisely and persuasively, check out our Think On Your Feet program.

3 Tips to Communicate in Times of Fear and Uncertainty

February 25, 2021/in Blog, Leadership, News, Think On Your Feet

Fear and uncertainty can bring a wave of emotions and stress within an organization. In times like this, leaders are often in a position where they need to provide an action plan, counter sweeping statements or acknowledge feelings in way that will not only communicate the next steps but also calm their listeners.

Here are some effective examples to structure your message to deliver it in a clear, focused and empathetic way.

1.Use points in time to communicate an Action Plan: 

Communicate the next steps using logical points in time. This gives the listeners clear focus and allows them to see practical actions and progression. Example: “As of April we will be putting this project on hold, by mid May we will re-evaluate the bottlenecks and resources needed to complete it and in June we will notify all departments about the new timelines and action items.”

2. Focus on a solution to Counter Sweeping Statements:

Counter generalized statements by focusing on a single solution that makes your point. This will help your listener look at things through a different perspective. Example: “Overall, yes, we have seen a decline in sales, however, we have come up with a few solutions. Specifically, we are going to boost our online sales and training.”

3. Recognize and Acknowledge Feelings:

Acknowledge a person’s feelings of fear and uncertainty by recognizing their question. This shows empathy and connects you better with your listener.  Example: “We welcome that question”; “We appreciate you asking”; “We were expecting that response.”

Although we can’t control how a person feels during times of fear or uncertainty, we can help calm their nerves and answer any questions with confidence. When we use structured communications to deliver an action plan, counter sweeping statements and acknowledge feelings, we will calm our listeners and deliver our message in a clear, focused and empathetic way.

Are you ready to power up your communication skills? Join our Think On Your Feet public workshop on the 19th and 20th of May, 2021. Find out more. 

The Tools of Change

February 25, 2021/in Blog, Dr Edward de Bono, Innovation, News, Strategic Conversations

How to improve collaboration, problem-solving, innovation, and decision making.

People outlive ideas

In the past, ideas have lived longer than people. Once they were established, ideas would be changed only slowly and over several generations. Technology and science have accelerated the rate of change and now the pandemic has collapsed decades of transition into months. People will now outlive many generations of ideas. This means that we need to improve our ability to change ideas. Unfortunately the way we have been taught to think makes changing ideas very hard to do.

Establish, not change

Our whole thinking system has been designed to establish and prove the truth of ideas. We have neglected the development of tools for changing ideas. Some dominant ideas have recently been challenged by necessity, for example the idea of office work was dominant over home working. Another dominant idea was that everyone in a team has to be present at the same time. Dominant ideas get locked in and it should not need a pandemic to change them. We believe that the ideas we hold at the moment must be right, otherwise we should not hold them. The whole basis of our approach to thinking is that you progress from the right ideas you hold to a refinement of these as you get closer and closer to a perfect perception of reality. The whole YES/NO system is designed to preserve and defend ideas and to reject any attempt to change them.

Change through rejection

With the YES/NO system change can come about only if the current idea is rejected. An idea must definitely be shown to be wrong before there can be any question of changing it or even considering the need to change it. What if the idea is not wrong but becoming less relevant and less valuable? Our approach is binary – yes or no, right or wrong.

Confrontation and clash

Since change can be achieved only by rejecting the current idea, any new idea must take the form of an attack on the dominant idea. The defenders of the existing idea hasten to resist and to reject the threatening new idea because it does not fit into the dominant way of looking at things. So the dominant idea becomes strengthened in defence and the new idea becomes more forceful in attack. In the end there is a head-on clash between the new idea and the dominant idea. This process was shown beautifully when naval designers started to put forward the ‘ridiculous’ idea of ships driven by screws instead of paddle-wheels. In the end the clash between the new idea and the old idea was settled by an actual tug of war. A screw-driven ship towed a much more powerful paddle steamer backwards through the water. Rarely is the clash so neat or the outcome so decisive. Too often ideas meet head on in conflict. For practical purposes one or the other idea triumphs and the remaining idea is subdued – but neither one is changed.

This is the ‘swap’ system that has been our chief method for change. In this swap system two opposing ideas grow ever more rigid and fierce until they meet in a head-on clash.

Scientific method

It is only in science that the clash system of change works tolerably well. In science you reinforce the new idea with so much evidence that it triumphs over the old one. Even so the defence of the dominant idea is fierce, and many new scientific ideas have been accepted only long after they were first suggested. The clash method in science works only because the new evidence can be assessed by objective and repeatable measurement.

Outside science

Outside the empirical world of science the clash method is very wasteful, because evidence is rare and incomplete so new ideas have to be looked at and assessed through the dominant ideas. Looking through these dominant ideas you can see only material which agrees with those ideas or disagrees. The material which disagrees is by definition wrong. Without objective measurement you have no choice except to judge subjectively; and you can judge subjectively only by using the only available framework for judgement – dominant ideas. Thus even an idea which is so right that it will eventually create a new framework must at first be rejected when looked at through the existing framework.

Even more difficult

Often it is impossible to change an idea that can be faulted. This is because ideas are affirmed not simply on logical grounds but also on emotional grounds. This means that the YES which affirms them is not simply the absence of NO but satisfies some emotional need. A person who is determined to believe in flying saucers travels to Norway to examine the wreck of a saucer that is said to have crashed there. If he finds nothing, then clearly the wreckage has been removed by the government in order to pretend it never happened. If he finds the wreckage of an ordinary. plane, then clearly the government has substituted the plane deliberately to mislead the investigators. So lack of actual evidence for the flying saucer is actually evidence of the conspiracy to hush it up and hence evidence for the saucers, since you do not hush up something which is not true. The idea becomes an impregnable myth which resists all evidence to destroy it.

Necessity is here now

Quite apart from its dangers and waste, the clash system of change is very, very slow. It is slow because you have to wait until ideas are obviously wrong and falling apart before you even try to look for new ideas. It is slow because you do not actually set out to look for new ideas but wait for them to happen. It is slow because the old idea sets about defending itself and rejecting the new idea for as long as possible.

The pandemic has changed this – once dominant ideas are no longer working. There is a need for new ideas to be designed, but we have not learned how to do this in a more constructive way than the battle of “I am right and you are wrong”.

We have learned the need to be right

From the earliest age there is the absolute insistence in education on the need to be right all the time. Encouragement and approval, which are emotionally necessary to young children, are used only as rewards for being right. Being wrong means being rejected by the teacher. Later on, when this.emotional support from the teacher is less important, being right is still tied directly to the child’s self-esteem. Status in the class is tied to being right. Being wrong is a matter for shame. In this way being right all the time acquires a huge importance in education, and there is this terror of being wrong. The ego is so tied to being right that later on in life you are reluctant to accept that you are ever wrong, because you are defending not the idea but your self-esteem. Since in the clash system the only way to change an idea is to admit that it is wrong, this terror of being wrong means that people have enormous difficulty in changing ideas. How many politicians or leaders admit they were wrong on some issue and change their ideas?

Tools for change

We have not been taught the tools for constructively changing ideas. Our thinking is based on the YES/NO system which is an anti-change system. Truth and untruth are pitted against each other with the usual certainty on both sides.

There are alternative thinking methods that enable individuals and groups to explore and develop ideas constructively. This is parallel thinking and is made easy to communicate and use through the Six Thinking Hats method. Teams use this to solve complex, contentious issues, effectively and quickly. It is achieved without defeating ideas or people. The approach is not about consensus and compromise but about a genuine exploration of the topic without taking sides. It is a method for creating value and encouraging people to change their own minds.

There are Lateral Thinking methods for changing perceptions and concepts. This is essential if we are to create value and solve intractable problems. No amount of excellent logic will create new ideas, as logic alone is entirely dependent on the starting point or premise that frames the situation. Lateral Thinking is a set of methods for deliberately changing our starting point and the concepts we use. What if there is more than one right answer? Lateral Thinking provides tools to escape a dominant idea without attacking it, by deliberately creating alternative concepts.

Don’t wait for the world to return to “normal”. The individuals and organisations that thrive are those that not only adapt to change but who also play an active role in designing the future.

Find out more about BRG’s de Bono training programmes, which accelerate the innovation process and help develop strategic thinking competence. Or join our upcoming public event: Virtual Collaboration with Six Thinking Hats.

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“This is an adaptation from the original which first appeared in the book ‘PO, Beyond Yes and NO’ by Edward de Bono. Republised under licence from the copyright holder deBono.com.”

Building capacity for our new virtual reality.

April 16, 2020/in Events, Human Resources, Innovation, Leadership, News, Press, Six Thinking Hats, Strategy, Think On Your Feet
Written by Kirsty Thompson

 

Never before in our recent history has the world of work changed so fundamentally, and so rapidly.  Doubtlessly, as the events and tragedies unfold around the world, we will be called to think differently.  About our humanity, about our planet and about our world of work.

Over the past several years, around the world and across all industries, training programs have seen a gradual shift away from face-to-face and toward digital training methods. However, the recent severe restrictions on travel and movement borne of the CovID-19 crisis have accelerated this shift rendering ‘Virtual’ a critical reality in doing any sort of business. 

In an effort to support clients and associates with a successful transition to virtual training and remote working BRG has committed to running a number of FREE virtual webinars and workshops. These are designed to assist with building the internal business capacity to conduct and receive virtual training and operate in a virtual environment. We invite you to register below and share the details with others you feel may benefit. These sessions are also available in-house.

FROM ZERO TO HERO ON ZOOM…. or your own platform!

Prepare your team to shoot the lights out with our Zero to Hero Video Conferencing session.  In just 45-minutes you will learn the key essentials, tools and success factors that will literally save days of your time.  You will discover how to turn an average (or awful) video meeting into a slick, interactive and memorable session. Learn the tools that will not only allow you and your teams to present on any VC platform with impact and credibility but also be able to inspire and excite.

USING SIX THINKING HATS™ IN VIRTUAL MEETINGS

This proven and powerful approach to thinking has been used around the world to address some of the world’s biggest challenges, from jury service in the USA to rescue teams in the Thailand Tsunami.  Six Hats is a method that will not only improve your meeting management but will show you how to harness the power of parallel thinking to deliver superior business results.

MANAGING VIRTUAL TEAMS – 7 STEPS TO GOING VIRTUAL

Remote working, or working from home, used to be a thing of the future but it’s now suddenly here and reality for most. Many managers, however, have not had the opportunity to develop the skill set required to manage remote teams and are struggling with the transition. Fortunately, there are some quick, relatively easy steps that managers can take to support and motivate remote team members whilst improving engagement, productivity, and motivation.  In this session you will discover seven steps to running a successful virtual team, and what it takes to ensure teams are engaged, present and committed.

Click HERE for more information or to book your spot

For more information or help with booking multiple delegates contact Boiko Lehana Boiko@brg.co.za

 

How HR Creates (and Destroys) Credibility with Business Leaders

August 8, 2019/in Human Resources, Leadership, News

Written by Mark Nyman

 
 
 

We work with hundreds of HR organizations across the globe. Some HR groups are well thought of and are viewed by business leaders as critical to the success of the organization. Some are viewed as a necessary evil who show up when something is wrong and whose primary role is policing the organization. Many HR groups are somewhere in between the two extremes, but most HR organizations have room to improve in being credible and partnering effectively.

In our work we have observed patterns that increase credibility and also patterns that erode credibility. Below are some simple observations about the approach HR takes that creates or detracts from credibility.

Credibility Creators

Optimize the Business: Many HR leaders lose sight of the fact that HR is a support organization. The goal is not to optimize HR. HR leaders who consistently make decisions using a business lens rather than an HR lens know that sometimes HR work will become more difficult, but that is OK. It does not mean that efficiencies are ignored, but the priority is clear with HR groups that are highly credible. A global pharmaceutical company that we worked with recognized this issue in how they designed talent acquisition. One part of the organization had very different needs and timelines than the rest of the organization. The CHRO responded to the need by embedding talent acquisition capability from an otherwise centralized TA group into that part of the organization. Effective HR leaders have this kind of logic embedded in their DNA.

Outside-In Approach: For years we have talked about the need for HR to be connected to the business. That is valuable but not sufficient. HR groups that are credible have a keen understanding of customers, investors, competitors, and emerging external trends. They use HR levers to help business leaders respond to external trends. For example, a telecom company facing a shift from grounded phone lines to web-delivered media helped launch a retraining program that would help develop the workforce of the future. We call this HR from the outside in. It is easy to talk about but challenging to pull off.

Credibility Detractors

Neglecting the Basics: There is HR work that is very strategic and connected to helping organizations gain competitive advantage. There is also essential work HR must do that is behind the scenes, needed to keep the business running, and often transactional in nature. If the essential work is not done flawlessly, credibility suffers and leaders are not likely to ask HR for help on strategic matters. If you can’t pay people correctly and on time, you are unlikely to have a voice in how to respond to business threats and opportunities. Most of the HR organizations we work in are striving for more strategic impact and don’t get there because basics like payroll and employee relations work is being done inconsistently. The basics have to be fixed first.

Pushing HR’s Agenda: Credibility takes a huge dive when business leaders spend time doing HR work that is not helping them solve their current and emerging business issues. Often HR groups roll out a number of programs that HR views as key while business leaders see no connection to solving their challenges. We call these solutions looking for problems. One organization we worked in had 17 different businesses in various parts of the world. The central HR group determined that every part of the company needed training in effective teamwork. In a few parts of the organization it was very helpful but for much of the organization it was an activity they had to complete but the time spent did not help solve current business challenges.

Driving the Wrong Standards: One of the longest running challenges for HR organizations (and other key functions as well) is knowing what to standardize and what to customize. The answer to this challenge is at the heart of effectively supporting the business. The related decision is what work to centralize and what work to decentralize. Teasing this out is not easy but always worth it. If you get it wrong from the perspective of business leaders, your credibility will take a significant hit. An energy company with operations all over the world implemented a one-size-fits-all performance management system. Many parts of the business ended up creating their own system so that the system was really helping them manage performance. Thousands of hours of work were dismissed and HR credibility fell because HR failed to recognize that a standard solution would not fit a business reality that required a much more customized answer.

Credibility matters. Businesses need effective HR organizations in order to navigate the challenges of today’s business environment.  Most businesses we work in would like to have HR partners helping them anticipate and meet the challenges facing them. To do so, HR must have the credibility to play the role organizations desperately need them to play.

That credibility comes from knowing how HR contributes to business function, how it can function better, and having solutions that help both happen.

Click here to learn more or contact us to find out how The RBL Group can help you build the credibility of your HR organization.

Original article: rbl.net
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